Anyway, here are some hints about how to tackle your first night

1.        Don't get over your nerves by drinking too much or popping fairy dust before hand.  Turning up drunk
or munted will ruin the experience for you and if you are too bad you may not get in.  Plus why spend $20 to
come to a party with hundreds of people and stand there talking to a bar stool or falling asleep on the toilet.

2.        When you arrive, make sure you fill in a name tag.  It is always good to allow people to glance at your
name tag and it helps them remember who you are.

3.        Be friendly and say hello to people as you walk around the place.

4.        Don't be self conscious if you just want to stand and watch for a while either.  Sometimes these nights
take a bit of getting used to.

5.        Please remember this is not a swinging party, so there is no sex on the premises.  People may wear
erotic clothing or be half naked but it isn't an invitation to touch or grope.  Sometimes it is hard not to stare
but be aware that you may be doing that (yes some people will look great just try not to stare - it makes them
uncomfortable).

Finally, if you are really struggling to get involved or feeling really self conscious or someone is annoying you
then just come and see me and I will look after it.

Enjoy your first night

Mr T